7/31/12

thrift - breaking up

i think i need to break up with my thrift store.

we've had some great times and great finds in the past but lately it seems the bad times are outnumbering the good.  and the bad has gotten BAD.

i don't really think my expectations are out of line -- and i am fully aware it is a thrift store.  you expect a level of disorganization {sometimes the best finds are the ones you find in places you wouldn't expect them... like an amazing vintage satchel left in the book aisles, but i digress} and chaos.  and you even understand that sometimes there will be no good stock.  it's luck of the draw, after all.  it's thrifting.  you get it.

but when the customer service becomes the problem you start to wonder why you bother.  when the manager always looks like someone just farted and your polite inquiries are treated with disdain and blatant rudeness you wonder.  when the cashiers move at a speed which makes you question whether it is blood or molasses that flow through their veins you wonder.  and when you witness an item SNATCHED from your mother's hands by yet another rude employee you wonder {and by wonder i mean fly into a red hot psychotic rage} if it is worth it anymore.

the final straw came the other day when i found a chocolate brown perfect condition wool camping blanket.

with no tag.

of course.

when i politely inquired {and you better believe i was polite, i work in customer service and know how much farther good manners will get you} as to whether i could have a tag made up i was treated with such disgusting rudeness i thought "SWEAR WORD THIS!!!!"

SWEAR.  WORD.  THIS.

i feel like i have given this relationship all that i have to give for now.  i have moved on and am attempting a separation.  i have begun seeing other stores.  maybe in the future my thrift and i will become friends again but for now i just cannot be bothered.

oh, i found the cute little frame pictured at the top of this post at my new favorite local thrift.  it was a dollar and actually matched another frame i already have.  so that explains the top photo of my adorable rabbit in a nice thrifted frame.

have you ever had to break up with a place?  am i being unreasonable?  should i suffer through the terrible customer service in the hopes of some amazing finds or should i just move on?

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Maybe move on - if they can't be bothered with nice customer service then should you bother with being a loyal customer?
1 reply · active 661 weeks ago
Aw, so sad! Did you at least get the blanket??

I really hate rude and slow customer service. CS in general is not what it used to be, and if you don't want to help people, then you shouldn't work somewhere where you have to deal with them.
1 reply · active 661 weeks ago
awwww, that blanket! unfortunately, no. and i have such a thing for camping blankets. wonderful thrift finds. i guess it just wasn't meant to be.
Then again I'm the kind of person who would want to try and see the best in them so maybe that person was having a bad day or something rubbish happened to them that morning and it just put them in a stinky mood.
1 reply · active 661 weeks ago
if it were a once in a while occurance i would try to be more understanding. but when it is the norm... meh. =(
I've broken up with a store before after three items in a row fell apart and the CS was rubbish. I prefer my new stores much more! Time to move on and find new treasures to adore. Love the picture of Lola and the snazzy frame!
1 reply · active 661 weeks ago
i and lola thank you for your support! i have actually been much happier since i've begun trolling my new store. i think this seperation should have happened a long time ago.
I am a new follower from the GFC blog hop. I am so looking forward to keeping up with your blog. You can find me over at www.dalaynadillon.blogspot.com See ya around! :D
1 reply · active 661 weeks ago
welcome to the party! looking forward to getting to know you! =)
Yikes!! You definitely are not being unreasonable! It drives me crazy when employees give terrible customer service. It's not hard to be nice! They probably hate their job and are taking it out on you.
A break up is necessary here.
1 reply · active 661 weeks ago
i agree! thank you for making me feel like the reasonable one in this situation. =)
Initially i was like.. why are you breaking up!! but then i read on and this just sounds like an abusive relationship! Swear word that! so many great ones out there! xo Eloise
1 reply · active 660 weeks ago
i have had such fun checking out new places. i've had some great luck with great finds and excellent customer service. i'm looking forward to sharing. =)
Oh no! Worst feeling ever! I am sorry they were so rude to you!
1 reply · active 660 weeks ago
thank you for your kind words. rudeness is just so... rude. ;)

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